Oh my goodness, Sue! It sure sounds like you need somebody there to help you and Ron through this. Maybe Hospice would be able to offer you some other ideas in caring for Ron - even if he refuses to cooperate, it wouldn't be such a heavy burden on your shoulders to have someone else there. I've always heard such good things about Hospice. And it would help relieve some of the stress you've had to deal with.


Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)