Will, my father is 92! And I still have not told him about it, and I already had my surgery done on 9-14-2012.
My brothers also help me hide the news from him. A week after surgery I have told my olderest brother that it should be time to let dad know, and he told me no hurry, since my dad is still on a trip.
I think they don't want to worry him also, and want to have him see me health and strong to let him know the news...
What I try to said is talk to your brother and sisters before you do anything, then you are not alone!
