Mark,

We have a saying on these forums, it's not cancer unless a biopsy says it is, so before we start jumping to a cancer conclusion let's wait for the path report.

No doubt this stuff is freakin scary, trust me I was there at 33 with a 28 year old wife, a 7 and 4 year old son so I know the fear factor. If I've learned anything is to just take one step at a time and not look too far ahead or even worry about the "what if's" and deal with things as they happen.

Thankfully I found these forums and the angels who are the survivors and caregivers that continue to plug back in year after year. The've helped me deal with this cancer experience every step of the way, and we'll be here for you as you need my friend.

Keep your chin up my friend, let us know what we can do to help

Eric


Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.