We're in seperate rooms for a few reasons - I need a lot of pillows right now in order to sleep comfortably and I am tossing and turning a lot during the night. He also has to wake up at 4:30AM to get ready for work and I can't go back to sleep once I wake up so that would mean that I would be getting up every morning at 4:30 instead of getting some rest. We've actually discussed replacing our king-sized bed with two doubles because we have such different sleeping habits normally that we seem to sleep better seperately (neither of us enjoys cuddling).

Currently, we don't have an extra bed, which would fit next to our king bed. The bed in our spare room is a queen...

I guess I am going to need to suck it up and ask my doctor when he thinks it would be safe for sex again. Some people might not think that sex is that terribly important but I feel it's a level of intimacy that we need in order to feel closer to each other. He's been wonderful and patient but I can see it is wearing on him.