Pat, I can't even imagine what your husband is going through, what you went through a year ago and what you're experiencing for him right now. I'll let the experts here add their advice - as they have so well already - and just send you all my best positive vibes.

David 2
SCC of occult origin 1/09 (age 55)| Stage III TXN1M0 | HPV 16+, non-smoker, moderate drinker | Modified radical neck dissection 3/09 | 31 days IMRT finished 6/09 | Hit 15 years all clear in 6/24 | Radiation Fibrosis Syndrome kicked in a few years after treatment and has been progressing since | Prostate cancer diagnosis 10/18