Tammy, my thoughts are with you and Kris. Even for me it's hard to imagine what you're going through. I believe Dr. I. Brook, who posts here and is an MD who had a laryngectomy if memory serves, could be a good resource. Believe that's his screen name (with or without spaces).

All the best to you both from up here.

David 2
SCC of occult origin 1/09 (age 55)| Stage III TXN1M0 | HPV 16+, non-smoker, moderate drinker | Modified radical neck dissection 3/09 | 31 days IMRT finished 6/09 | Hit 14 years all clear in 6/23 | Radiation Fibrosis Syndrome kicked in a few years after treatment and has been progressing since | Prostate cancer diagnosis 10/18