I am so sorry to hear this. We were facing this with Ken and it is so scary. I don't know if you have an iPad but we got one for Ken and bought an app ( kind if expensive around $200) but it was going to let him type by picking words if would speak for him. I think it was called proloquo2go.
I wish you strength and peace through this latest chapter.

Take care,Jill


Jill..CG to Ken, age 43,mom of 1yr old girl.
DIAG:12/9/10 SCC BOT T4N0M0 HPV+
START:1/3/11 IMRT dailyX35 and 7 chemo
END:2/23/11 PEG IN:1/15/11 Out:4/26/11
CT/MRI 4/25/11-marked improvement CT 6/11 new spots
BX 6/23-cancer present
Total Glossectomy sched 7/20/11
7/19/11 Ken's suffering ended