Hi Mick,
You are in the perfect place to work through your anger.

Be angry. But, don't let it destroy you. OC takes enough away from patients, survivors and caregivers. Don't give it more of your life than it has already taken from you.

Don't feel rushed to feel anything different. Don't feel pressured to stay "positive". I'm sure you already know that people who don't know what it's like to be an OC survivor will say really stupid things. Try to count to 10 and just let it go. But, if it makes you feel better, speak your mind. Find safe people with whom you can vent. You have a whole bunch of them, right here. If anyone can understand, it's the people here on the forum.

Welcome to the family, Mick.

Sandy
xo

Last edited by Sandy177; 02-17-2012 02:51 AM.
Ex-spouse MISDIAGNOSED with SCC-HN IVa 12/10. Tonsils out 1/11. 4 teeth out 2/11. TX Erbitux x2, IMRT x2 2/11. 2nd opinion-benign BCC-NOT CANCER 3/11. TX stopped 3/11. New doctors 4/11. ENT agrees with 2nd opinion 5/11. ENT scoped him-all clear 7/11. Ordered MRI anyway. MRI 8/22/11 Result-all clear.