thinking of you as my husband and I are dealing w the same sad news frown my 59 yr old FIL diagnosed in Jan, has now spread into his lungs and bones in his chest, he is in horrible pain and cannot take anymore treatment as it would do more harm than good.........I do not know what to say other than I am here for you as well...if u would like to talk we can....Take care

FIL DX JAN 29, 2011
stage 4 Squamous cell carcinoma
inoperable due to his overall health.
started treatment: March 2011.
feeding tube and TRACH
finished 39 radiations and weekly chemos JUNE..
June- 3 weeks in hospital for pneumonia
July-pet scan showed slightly better
OCT- hospice care, cancer all thru body