Bonnie-I don't come to this forum very much anymore and yours was the first post to catch my eye when I logged in. Please pm me with any questions or just to vent. I've been down this road and would like to help if I can.

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.