Bonnie, I am very sorry about the latest turn of events with John. I know it is very difficult but you can get thru it. People dont always know just how strong they are until they are forced to be strong. Take things day by day, or hour by hour. Make sure you take a break and catch your breath. Thats something caregivers forget, to look out for themselves too. Please take care! I will keep you both in my prayers.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile