I hope you understand how different each one of us are. Most oral cancer patients will end up with some after effects. For some lucky few, their life will be pretty much what it was prior to getting sick.

My life is actually much more meaningful now. I have lots of limitations and daily issues but I have a great outlook on life. I love helping others here. Its giving back, just like so many OCF members who helped me along the way when I was going thru my battles. My previous life was a selfish one, working and taking care of my family. I didnt help others or volunteer. Now I spend a few hours everyday doing for others and Im very proud of the fact that I am able to help other people.

Get thru what you must then take time to reflect on your new life and make the most of what you can. Dont forget ask for the possey muir valve type of trach. It allows you to easily talk with it in. Good luck!!!!