Anne Marie.....I understand what you are saying but we have been doing ALL this for FIVE years....to no avail....I cant save his life at this point and I did go for grief counseling yesterday and she advised me that this is his life, his private death and to let him do it his way.....we tried trickery and threats and crying and bullying....it is past the point...I just want him to be comfortable in his mind and soul right now and he seems to be that whether he is in pain or not! thanks for the great advise!
Wanda