Anne-Marie...thanks so much for your kind words.....it is very painful to have to hear what dad is going through and not being able to do anything....I assume when the time comes we will just call Hospice..or 911....I didnt realize how prevalent oral cancer is until I read these posts..people should be more aware of it...seeing your son at only 33.....and so glad to see he is cancer free!! Dad seems to have come out of his depression after a visit from the family members and seemed pretty much his old self on the phone today...he had said he had gone outside for a while....and then his earache drove him back inside....Thanks to all for your kindness!!
Wanda