Thanks Anne-Marie.....yes my brother who was just there suggested he go or he would go for him just to speak to a Dr or get pain meds for him and he got very angry....so we have all just decided that this is the way he wants it to go...my brother spoke of guilt and I refuse to feel guilty ...I have tried my best and have butted my head against a wall...I even bought them a house down here in my area where I could better take care of them both...this has been 2 years and he refuses to live here so I am stuck with the house but have been renting it out.....I will try to go and see him soon...I am resolved to him dying without medical care...unfortunately! He has bad and good days...I talk to him every day....he seemed chipper today but had a bad day yesterday...I guess this is the way it will go until he passes....was reading some of the other posts on odor and someone said it was the odor of dying flesh and that is why it is turning into water...so sad...thank you for your post!
Wanda