Im sorry that your husband has had a recurrance. Ive gone thru it twice and know exactly what you are facing. Get him to a cancer center for a second opinion right away. If I were in your shoes, I would never give up. I do not pay attention to the odds. You either make it or you dont. Chemo alone will not cure this cancer, it is used for pallitive care. I will post a list of cancer centers, dont let location choose his fate.

http://oralcancerfoundation.org/resources/index.htm#centers


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile