Hi Everyone: I am new to this site. I was diagnosed last month with stage-4 base of tongue cancer. I have been working with a cancer center close to my house but have a consultation at Dana-Farber in two days. I am pretty scared but have a lot of support: my partner, our three kids, family, friends, work. I am nervous that the doctors at Dana-Farber will recommend a different treatment plan. What do you do in that case? -Michelle