 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | Suez, it sounds to me like he has a self pity case going. To have a great caregiver and make them miserable is beyond me. Let him know in a direct manner that unless he changes and becomes more thoughtful of you and all you do for him, that he might end up taking care of himself. Also, it could possibly be that he is crying for more help or out in pain. I'm just saying how things should be but we all are different. Tell Ron that I sure wish I had a caregiver to help me thru this mess. I say he has been lucky to have you in his corner.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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