Jim I love the way you think about eating.I only wish Ron would too. I've offered him the fat to suck on when I also cooked beef brisket on the grill, he'd get all excited ya he will eat it and when the time came he refused. BUT he is getting better day by day with eating a lil something. Yesterday it was Ham and Bean soup I made and pureed it up for him, he complained it was only have a mug full, I didn't know how much to give him because he don't usually eat anything. Oh well will fill up a big ol' mug next time for him! Now he's on a Burrito Supreme kick, he said he just wants to suck out the inside of it. lol Taco Bell here I come! Whatever it takes, today he had his 6 mo apt with his Oncologist from his bout with Non Hodgkins Lymphoma, I asked him how much does he weigh, he said bout the same(130 last time)I asked him again how much(3x's) and he finally told me, 125. 6'1 125...God I need him to eat more and smoke and drink beer less. Now don't go preaching to me for help for him or myself, I get it. But he don't. So...I told him...he has to leave my house, because he is killing himself and I am not going to watch him die. I don't know what else to do for him.