All,

Thank you so very much for your input. It has helped in ways that I can not begin to explain. My brother, gets a bit weaker each day. That said, this weekend he chooses to be with a lovely
woman from his complex. My mother has concerns (because she can not control this)I don't. My thought is that he is an adult and deserves time alone when possible. This is probably the last possible weekend. So, Mom comes to my house this weekend and my brother is with his Lady Love. The End

Twin brother Stage 4. Mouth, tongue, jaw, throat, neck and vocal chords. Not a candidate for surgery or chemo due to earlier health issues this year. He is opting for no treatment. He smoked and drank. Nutritional levels were not at their highest the last several years.