I too am having a really hard time putting weight back on. I probably look terminal to people. I am 5'4" and I'm down to 98 pounds. But I really feel pretty good and I'm eating and drinking Ensure as much as I can. My ENT threatened to put the feeding tube back in if I didn't start gaining so believe me I'm trying. I don't have any secret on weight gain, but I know it's hard for others to see me so skinny. Your brother will gain weight. It just takes time. It's been almost a year for me so far.


BOT-SCC Partial glossectomy 7/16/09.
Stage IV, Rt ND 10/2/09.
Teeth out 11/5/09.
Port/peg in, 11/20/09.
7 wks rad & chemo, end 1/22/10
lung, colon biopsies 1/9/11 - both cancer
colon resect surg 1/10/11
Folfox + Avastin - discontinued 6/11
lung surgery 3/13/12, 5/1/12
mets to liver and bones
passed away 9/4/13