Thank you all ! Christine, Karen, David,Charm and Don for your support and opinion.
Me and my husband finally decided to with Cisplatin. Treatment is due to start on Nov 1. But Doctor said he will confirm with us if the Chemo will be given the same day. Is it okay if chemo is given a day after or 2.

Caregiver to husband 40 yrs. Was diagnosed SCC 09/2010. Soft palate, lft of tounge. Stage 4 HPV-
Radiation 70 gy & chemo start Nov 1 End Dec 17/2010.
1MRI-7 Mar 2011. Neck dissection-14 apr 2011. Lymph nodes removed 36 just 1 had cancer. F/U CT Scan-19 may 2011. "Cancer Free" as per doctors!