Bonnie-My husband also had mets to his lungs after surgery, rads, numerous chemos. I understand that because he DID have positive nodes at the time of surgery that it was highly likely that it would spread. We were not told this at the time.

I understand how "getting your affairs in order" is a scary thing to deal with but once it is done-a load will be taken off your mind and you can focus on your husband. Please pm me with any questions you may need personal answers to.

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.