Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Bonnie, I am so sorry to read your post. You and your husband must be devastated!!! Cancer unfortunately for a small few can and will come back. Have you gone for a second opinion? I dont want to give you false hope but having a second opinion could make a difference. Call a cancer center immediately and insist on an appointment this week. I will keep you and your husband in my prayers. Wishing you both all the best. Here is a link to the nations best cancer centers. http://oralcancerfoundation.org/resources/index.htm#centers ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive |