I don't come and post very often anymore as most of mine are rants just like this one. I'm so tired and I know when this kind of stuff happens....at our house about every other day.....it makes you crazy. Hang in there. Caregiving is the hardest thing I've ever done and you sure aren't alone in your aggravation in dealing with an obstinate man! I can't even begin to count the cancelled appts or just "no shows" mine has pulled. Thinking of you and the all of the rest of us who cope...one minute at a time.