Charm,I wasn't sure what the PEG wars were about(that sounds funny,doesn't it? I picture little PEGS lined up like a game of Stratego).

Your post makes lots of sense though. While any caregiver will know just how deeply we too are affected,I also realize that Dave is experiencing anything I am in terms of family,lifestyle changes,etc AND he is experiencing a million changes in his body.
I used to say to him "how's your mouth",then it was "how's your energy", then it was how's your mouth, your energy, your throat." As the list grew we just shorthanded it to how's your "various ailments."

He is amazing with this. Really. And I figure my job is to support his best way of making it through. That said, my amazing guy is a stubborn guy so I also want to make sure he's making healthy choices.

What I'm realizing from this post though is things are coming his way but who knows what or how he will handle it. The important part is that it subsides and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel!!!

Any tips for not using the PEG???