Hi Pat, Glad to see your post. You are not alone. So many here are so smart & helpful, as you already know. My sister came w/me to every dr. visit. I didn't ask questions, I didn't take in any of what the dr. even said! I was to numb, because this whole cancer thing was too much to deal with. I would have to ask my sister...over & over..."what?". So I hope some one can ask ? on your behalf, because you should know what is in store for you. I also had a peg. Do you know, you can put 2 cans w/some water into the bag @once? I loved that, this way your not so bothered by feedings. Food will come, sores will heal ! Rest for now!