Hi Scot and welcome to OCF. I'm sorry to hear about your brother in law and I'm sure they both appreciate your support. I'm glad you posted. You will get so much wonderful information and support here.

Eileen has a lot of good ideas that I wish I had thought of. Taping the conversation would be awesome. I would come home with the pathology reports and Google everything and that was terrifying.

Do you live close to your brother in law and sister?


Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)