Hi Tom,

I ditto what the rest have said....go on the trip, make as many special memories now while she's feeling good. From my experience, when I don't worry about the money situation and believe it's going to work out, it always does. I think there needs to be a balance, but you're under special circumstances. Go for it!

Hugs,

Shelley

Caregiver to husband Ron. Throat Cancer. Finished 35 radiation treatments on 11/21/04. 8/2/11 small lesion on lower gum, laser Procedure to remove. 3/6/12 Doc. removed another lesion on outside of his neck. Did a skin graft from his chest to replace the skin on his neck. Went to Heaven on 6/24/12.