Paula, so sorry to hear the news. Our hearts go out to you and your husband. I just finished reading "Chasing Daylight" and I think the biggest thing I took out of it is to live in the moment and try to find the value in each day. Will keep you and Jim in our thoughts and prayers.


Tom-CG to wife, Pam 46@dx
Stage IV Tongue Cancer T2N2C
Dx 6/08, Surgery 7/08, 3 nodes positive
9/08 33IMRT/7Carbo/Taxol
4/09 node biopsy positive, mets to lungs/stomach
5/09 Cisplatin or Cis/Alimta study
6/09 Cis/Taxotere
9/09 Taxotere
1/10 Xeloda
3/10 Cetuximab weekly
6/29/10 lost battle