I wish I had some words that would offer you some comfort, but I don't think they exist. You know you have the support of those on the board who have walked your path, and I know you will lean on them.

I'm sure you will think of somewhere to get away to for a day or so to indulge yourselves, or maybe you can arrange for your anniversary party to come to you. Special Days are special because of the people you spend them with - not the places you go.

Thinking of you both, and sending a hug.

Donna

Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)