I'm not sure what to say Paula. You certainly have raised a chorus of emotions from me - happy to hear from you, sad about recent developments, admiration for your strength of character and Jim's ability to get through what sounds like a hellish ordeal, anger at your "family", and relieved that your brother came to support you. That pretty much wraps it up. Keep us posted. You are in my prayers.

Donna

Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)