It would be a great opportunity to spread the word about Oral Cancer & OCF's efforts if Oprah did respond to Donna.
I especially like the idea of people learning that "let me know if there is anything i can do" is an inappropriate shifting of the burden, and that a positive offer of food for the caretaker, or yard work, etc is so much better. The lessons we have learned the hard way are equally applicable to all cancers just perhaps more poignant for oral cancer patients (but then I am admittedly biased in this regard)
Great concept Donna and keep us posted on any feedback from O
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