Wanda,
I can so relate to your story here. I had all the same issues that you had. He still doesn't want to do the peg tube like he is suppose so I started to put in 2 or 2 1/2 cans in a pitcher and did it that way. Told him I added water to it. My husband ended up loosing 30 pounds.
Pat

Crgvr to Husband 55-yrs, surgery to remove cyst-diagnosed as SCC, 4/3/09 CT & Pet Scan showed more cancer in left lymph node and primary at the base of the tongue.TX Radiation 7 weeks 5 days a week last day is 6/25/09
Chemo completed 6/19/09
Peg Tube 5/22/09