Wendy- Just keep reminding him how much you love him. My husband would get to the point where he'd say-Enough already, I know, I know you love me. Remember to take some time for yourself whether you go for a walk or just sit on the porch to breathe. I didn't do that at the beginning until a wise lady on this board suggested it. It will help you to be a better caregiver. Please let me know if I can help in anyway.

Sue


cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.