Thanks everyone. Your support and advise makes this so much easier. Just wondering if anyone has any advise on how to get a man to take serious possible side effects. We have cream for his skin, mouth washes to help with any sores etc but do you think I can get him to use them regularly. I know he feels like crap but if he doesn't use this stuff he's going to feel a whole lot crappier. Any idea's on how to convince him to be vigilant with this stuff before he learns the hard way. Is it a man thing, not wanting to care for yourself. How do you get someone to step up and care about their own health. I know he's doing treatment which I am so grateful for but I'm really concerned about more pain from side effects, just wish I could get it across to Steve how important all of this stuff is.