Yes Cheryl, that is right what you are saying. Compliance is the key word it seems to me no matter how much noise I'm making it falls on deaf ears.

My oldest daughter and I have drawn up a schedule. My husband's input has been zero. We are 'cancered out' already. No interest or input on his behalf so it seems.

Atm we have chemo appts in the morning and rads in late afternoon. Can someone tell me whether it's better to have all in one hit or having a break between appts? The reason I'm asking is what is mentally, psychologically more feasible. Given we have to travel to two different hospitals for treatment.







Heike

Working caregiver of my husband (51) Simon

03/2014 oropharyngeal cancer, stage IVB, T2N3M0, HPV 16 +
04/2014 Neck dissection - 39 lymph nodes removed, one node positive greater than 6cm, tumour in tonsil reaching into soft palette
28/04/14 begin of treatment
33 x RADS 66 Gy, 33 x chemo cisplatin 13mg each
29/04/14. pick two lines
12/06/14 finished treatment
09/ 14 Pet scan clear