I cannot even imagine what you are going through. I don't think we can really offer much advice as we are not in your country, but please know we are here to listen to you and be your virtual shoulders to lean on. All you can do is the best that you can do, if your husband gets to a point that you can't help then he may end up in the hospital and the professionals will take it from there. We will be thinking of you and watching for updates.
Best wishes,
Kathy


Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14