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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Jim,
It's easy for you to say that you'll be there since you're only 2 years away.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | Give her the big 5 right in the kisser LOL.. But I get hers if I outlast that beautiful woman. I will give her that. She was always one of the best looking women in the OHIO Valley and in damn good shape too. I had to be crazy to give her up and go to where I got deserted like this. We still talk a lot and get along good. I saw a tape of us at my daughters. Man she was gorgeous.I had her in a backbend and we had a liplock operating. LOL Damn dirty old man.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,128 | One of the things I did when I retired was kill the life insurance -- It was intended to be a replacement for my income which I no longer had anyway! Left with small policies on wife and myself, suitable for funeral expenses (Burn, Baby, Burn!), which we cashed out and divided up when we divorced.
Age 67 1/2
Ventral Tongue SCC T2N0M0G1 10/05
Anterior Tongue SCC T2N0M0G2 6/08
Base of Tongue SCC T2N0M0G2 12/08
Three partial glossectomy (10/05,11/05,6/08), PEG, 37 XRT 66.6 Gy 1/06
Neck dissection, trach, PEG & forearm free flap (6/08)
Total glossectomy, trach, PEG & thigh free flap (12/08)
On August 21, 2010 at 9:20 am, Pete went off to play with the ratties in the sky.
| | | | | Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | Now I have to confess, When I met BarbT I turned to a wet noodle and got those rubbery legs that don't want to hold a person up. BarbT is very gorgeous and way more so than my ex.Have you heard that song, She had me from the go? Well believe me Barb had me then and it just git stronger. I have never fallen like that for any woman until Barb walked into my life. It was like the 1st time of being in love and this time for real, She was the sweeteast woman and so thoughtful of my feelings and needs that I was the putty and her the sculpture. I lefy my wife for Barb and when I did, my wife knew all about us, I am thankful for having Barb around when this OC hit and even before. She was my Guardian angel and made sure I did what I was supposed to. She could come back here at anytime and I would hold the door for her. I hate to admit it, but she was and still is my main support and the gleam that kept m going thru all of this and more. Tell Her thsnks for being there for me. I would never have been so tough if not for her boosting me and urging me onward.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 225 | I could give advice for moving to the south of France as I am French and grew up there. It's beautiful down there especially in Ariege and Aude. Why did I move to London again?
Girlfriend to Martin 49 years old at diagnosis
Diagnosed with SCC unknown primary June 2008.
Cancer found in single node Stage N2A (3 to 6cm).
Tonsilectomy 16th june, Radical modified neck dissection left side 30th june.
30 TX radiotherapy ended 9th October
First comparative study scan came back clear
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Joined: May 2002 Posts: 2,152 | Cecilia,
Sounds good to me. I love France. All that good food and wine and it is a beautiful country. Yes, why did you move to London?
Take care,
Eileen
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Aug 1997 unknown primary, Stage III
mets to 1 lymph node in neck; rt ND, 36 XRT rad
Aug 2001 tiny tumor on larynx, Stage I total laryngectomy; left ND
June 5, 2010 dx early stage breast cancer
June 9, 2011 SCC 1.5 cm hypo pharynx, 70% P-16 positive, no mets, Stage I
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Excuse me, over my dead body....
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 489 | My first round of cancer cashed out the whole life that I had and then the loss of my job took care of the group life. I would like to have a policy to take care of a few things after I am gone, but I figure that they will sell my house and land, pay off the bills and the rest of them will suffer.
I have arrangements for my dogs and that is what is important to me. I don't have children.
Jim I hope both of those ladies get to read how much that they meant to you. I have never heard anyone honestly state how someone knocked them off their feet quite like you did.
Patty
48
SCC Floor of Mouth 7/06
9/06 Surgery, bilateral neck dissection, 58 nodes clear PT2pN0pMx
35 rad 2006
Recurred 6/08, 1 Carboplatin, 1 Cisplatin
Surgery 9/08 - Total glossectomy, free flap from pectoral muscle, left mandible replaced using fibula
35 IMRT & Erbitux 11/08
4/15/09 recurrence
6/1/09 passed away, rest in peace
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | I just like to tell it like it is Patty and I don't believe in lying because lies have a way of sneaking up behind you and taking a bite. LOL It sounds as if you are by yourself too. Have a good day .
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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