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Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 96 | Dear Liz,
I agree with the other posters that say you're amazing! You have been through the worst this disease has to offer, and yet you remain here to help others. I only hope I have a portion of your strength in the days to come.
Love,
Lori
Lori, cg to H Ron, age 56.
Stage IV Oral SCC-T1N2. Tongue resected and right ND 8/05. Teeth removed, PORT, PEG, IMRT x33, Cisplatin x3. Tx ended 10/05.
Recurrence 7/08 Stage IV. Surgery 8/30/08.
2nd recur. 11/08. 2nd surgery 2/2/09.
3rd recur. 4/9/09. Erbitux wkly. 5/09-?
Ron died 6/6/09.
Lori also passed away 8/20/11, colon cancer
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Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 2,676 | Well, Cookey, my friend, we both have an anniversary of sorts to deal with, don't we. And deal we will!!. Amy
CGtoJohn:SCC Flr of Mouth.Dx 3\05. Surg.4\05.T3NOMO.IMRTx30. Recur Dx 1\06.Surg 2\06. Chemo: 4 Cycles of Carbo\Taxol:on Erbitux for 7 mo. Lost our battle 2-23-07- But not the will to fight this disease
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Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | Hey amy
yes you passed the 2nd anniversary of your loss yesterday and in a few months i will reach mine.Where does the time go?And still we return to this safe haven don't we.
I have been attending a bereavement group for the last three weeks,and am finding my self dealing with things i have tried very hard to ignore for the last 18months.I am not sure if it is helping as yet,but i hope it will.
peace to you Amy
love liz
Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 718 | Amy,
I think about you often. How are you doing? I hate that you and Liz have such sad anniversaries to mark. You two were my caregiver rocks when I didn't think I could do the job. I know your spouses aren't here with you. (*Damn It*) But, I know they are smiling down at you from heaven, knowing they were lucky enough to marry two of the nicest women who ever were.
In a couple of months it will be two years from Dan's diagnosis. And, two years since I met you two on the boards. And, for all the rest of my years I will always admire the two of you!
Margaret
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C/G: Husband, 48 (at time of dx)
Dx 5/18/07 SCC, BOT, lymph node involvement. T1N2BM0. (Stage 4a, G2/3)
Tx 6/18 - 8/3/07, IMRT x 33 Cisplatin x3 (stopped after 1st dose due to hearing issues). Weekly Erbitux started 6/27/07 completed 8/6/07.
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