#79890 09-04-2008 07:27 AM | Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 6 Member | OP  Member
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 6 | I only posted once, about the horrible odor coming from my daughter's mouth and any suggestions on how to handle it. Well, on August 25th, my beautiful daughter passed away. I had been by her side for many days. We kept her medicated and she did not seem to be in pain. That young heart of her's keep working overtime trying to keep her alive, even as her oxygen level dropped to the low 40's. She died peacefully. She is my hero. She never complained during this 1 and 1/2 year struggle with tongue cancer. She never complained about not being to eat one thing by mouth for the past year. I know it frustrated her when people could not understand her, but she would patiently say it again more slowly or write it down. She was a great woman, a hero, and I loved her with all my heart. I know I will see her again some day but until then, I will miss her deeply.
43 years old, non-smoker, non-drinker, diagnosed March, 2007, Eurbitox and radiation in 2007, clear Nov 2007, reoccured February, 2008. | | | | | Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 706 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) | | "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 706 | I'm so very sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Sue
cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,357 Likes: 5 | My sincere condolences to you and your family. I cannot imagine your pain and I admire your courage. I know that words at this time don't ease your pain, but I hope that you know that we are praying for your strength and your daughter's peace.
Donna
Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)
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Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 309 | so sorry for your loss. so glad you were by her side through it. peace be to you. (HUGS)
Rita - Age 44
wife, mother of 4 - ages 3,16,21,24 & grandma to 1
(R upper) Maxillectomy 8/8/08 - UW / Seattle, WA.
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"Those who think by the inch and speak by the yard, should be kicked by the foot."
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Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | I remember you well,and send my deepest sympathy.
liz
Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | What a shame at any age much less one so young.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 104 | I am so sorry for your loss. Life just isn't fair at times.
Caregiver to husband Dx. Stage 4 SCC of gingiva with 3 nodes pos. Partial mandiblectomy with bone graft from iliac crest Dec. 2006. IMRT x30, Cisplatin x3. Completed Tx. March 15, 2007. Osteonecrosis & removal of graft & plate Oct. 2007. Recurrence of SCC Dec. 2007. Deceased Jan. 17, 2008.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 221 | Weeze,
I am so sorry about your daughter. Trust that time will heal your heart. May all the good memories comfort you during this sad time.
Love,
Joy
CG to Father, 75 yo with SCC of the mouth; upper maxillectomy and neck diss. performed on 5/23/07. Father also suffered heart attack during surgery and now has CHF. RT complete on 8/28/07. Cancer back 11/27/07. RT and Chemo to start on 12/17. Cancer back 6/17/08. Finally at rest 08/08/08.
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Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 6 | I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. I am sending you a very big hug and prayers your way.
Sabrina | | | | | Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 |
Im very sorry for your loss. Find comfort in the memories of yours daughter and the good times that you shared.
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | |
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