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Joined: Jul 2011 Posts: 945 | Good lord, David. At least she is out of there. Thoughts and prayers your way.
Maria
CG to husband - SCC Tonsil T1N2M0 HPV+ Never Smoker
First symptoms 7/2010, DX 12/2010
TX 40 IRMT (1.8 gy) + 10 Cetuximab
PET Scans 6/2011 + 3/2012 clear, 5 year physical exam clear; chest CT's clear of cancer. On thyroid pills. Life is good.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Im so sorry to hear of Linda's problems at a "care" facility! She is so lucky to have you in her corner!!! Give them heck, David!!!
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Jul 2012 Posts: 3,267 Likes: 4 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jul 2012 Posts: 3,267 Likes: 4 | I'm sorry David. Same thing happened to me, dehydrated, c-diff, acute kidney failure, and spent 21 days in the hospital due to lack of proper care, and basic IV. They even stole my iPod when I was being put in the ambulance. They were lucky I couldn't walk or of sound mind, but my brother gave it to them though. I have nothing kind to say of these places, although there are some good people, but are too few, and far in between.
10/09 T1N2bM0 Tonsil
11/09 Taxo Cisp 5-FU, 6 Months Hosp
01/11 35 IMRT 70Gy 7 Wks
06/11 30 HBO
08/11 RND PNI
06/12 SND PNI LVI
08/12 RND Pec Flap IORT 12 Gy
10/12 25 IMRT 50Gy 6 Wks Taxo Erbitux
10/13 SND
10/13 TBO/Angiograph
10/13 RND Carotid Remove IORT 10Gy PNI
12/13 25 Protons 50Gy 6 Wks Carbo
11/14 All Teeth Extract 30 HBO
03/15 Sequestromy Buccal Flap ORN
09/16 Mandibulectomy Fib Flap Sternotomy
04/17 Regraft hypergranulation Donor Site
06/17 Heart Attack Stent
02/19 Finally Cancer Free Took 10 yrs
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Hang tough David, you are all she has protecting her from the mass of idiots "just trying to do their job". Has anyone told them what the hell their job is???
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 711 | So, I got sidetracked before I finished my update. Linda is home now. She stayed 1 night in ICU and 3 nights in DCU and was discharged wed. Docs were talking about sending her to9 another facility to continue p.t. and o.t. but we said nope, she's coming home. One big headache has been that her ileostomy is retracted, leaving nothing for the ostomy bag to enclose so that it leaks after a short while and had to be changed frequently. I sat down with the director of nurses at the rehab place and explained that to her. She assured me that they were capable of handling the situation. Well, as it turned out, the staff had no idea how to change the bag and get a halfway decent fit, plus, they had to use supplies that had been ordered for another patient. That is why the nurses were upset that they had to spend so much of their precious work time with her, and yes, David, someone has told them what their job is. Me! Anyway, at the hospital we finally got a certified ostomy nurse to show us how it's done and the bag she put on lasted 3 days. A good thing because Michael and I would have had a hell of a time doing it the way all the other morons did. So, now she's home and much more comfortable and happier and Michael and I have a lot more confidence in our ability to deal with the ostomy bag. Whew, what a ridiculous road we had to follow to get here.
David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.
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Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,301 | Glad that Linda is home now and being cared for by what sounds like 2 very capable and caring nurses  I hope she is now on the road to recovery. Gabriele
History Leukoplakia bx 8/2006 SCC floor mouth T3N0M0- Verrucous Carcinoma.
14 hour 0p SCC-Right ND/excision/marginal mandibulectomy 9/2006, 4 teeth removed, flap from wrist, trach-ng 6 days- no chemo/rad.
6 ops and debulking (flap/tongue join) + bx's 2006-2012.
bx Jan 2012 Hyperkeratosis-Epithelial Dysplasia
24cm GIST tumour removed 8/2013. Indefinite Oral Chemo.
1/31/16 passed away peacefully surrounded by family
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Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 5,264 Likes: 5 | Hate this facilities glad you have them the what for and even happier she is home! Hugs!
Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan
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Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | Well, David - Looks like the very best "facility" is HOME! So glad Linda is home with you being cared for by people who know what they are doing and are doing it right! And the big plus is the Tender Loving Care that goes with it. Yay! for our side!
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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Joined: Jun 2013 Posts: 262 | David, you & Michael are doing an amazing job of advocating for Linda. You shouldn't have to fight for decent care, but you are obviously up to the job when called. This is for you:
"I am a man of peace, but if war comes to my door it will find me home." -- Churchill
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T3N2aM0 HPV+
5/26/13 discovered painless superball-sized lymph node in neck
6/26/13 DX SCC R palatine tonsil
7/16/13 TORS tonsillectomy & selective ND, mets to 2 nodes
9/3/13 Cisplatin and rads begin, tolerated 1.5 of 3 planned chemo doses
10/16/13 Treatment ends
Dec 13 Ulcer appears at surgery site
Jan 17 Biopsy -- no cancer!
Feb 17 CT/PET Scan lights up tonsil bed & nasal cavity, docs say probably inflammation, don't panic, rescan when ulcer subsides
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Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 756 Likes: 1 | David,
I'm so sorry that Linda had to endure such terrible "care" at a care facility. Thank God she has you and Michael to watch out for her. I'm glad she is home and I'm sure she is much happier being at home. Wishing all of you the best!
Susan
SCC R-Lateral tongue, T1N0M0
Age 47 at Dx, non-smoker, casual drinker, HPV-
Surgery: June 2005
RT: Feb-Apr 2006
HBOT: 45 in 2008; 30 in 2013; 30 in 2022 -> Total 105!
Recurrence/Surgeries: Jan & Apr 2010
Biopsy 2/2011: Moderate dysplasia
Surgery 4/2011: Mild dysplasia
Dental issues: 2013-2022 (ORN)
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