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Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 711 | Linda's starting the 4th week of her 5 1/2 week rt course. She's starting to get a burn going and is tired and cranky (which, of course, I never was). Any way, rounding the final turn and, "DOWN THE STRETCH THEY COME".
David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.
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Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 167 | All the best to Linda - light at the end of the tunnel! Hang in there- both of you!
Jennifer (39)
02/10 SCCa Tongue & Base, HPV-
03/10 Partial Glossectomy & ND 11/10 Revision due to additional nodes 12/20-2/2/11 IMRT & concommitant chemo 2/11 PEG in 3/11 PEG out
Back at work and feeling good 03/24/11!
12/20/11 - 9 month f/u PET/CT - all clear!
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Joined: May 2011 Posts: 13 | I wish you both all the best!!! You sound like you have a great attitude and that is so helpful.
Misty
I was 42 when diagnose two years ago, smoker, light alcohol use, partial gossectomy, left neck dissection, peg, 7-09 IMRT, no chemo deemed nesseccary, 3-2011 HBO.
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Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 711 | Unfortunately it's an hour by hour struggle to keep a decent attitude. Sometimes I just feel like running down the street screaming. But none of us needs to see that so I keep up my attitude, it's healthier that way.
David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.
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Joined: Jan 2011 Posts: 571 | Hang in there, David. Linda is so lucky to have you. Remember to take care of you and to do things to feed your soul, to comfort your spirit. There isn't a rule that says you have to be strong and stoic 24/7. Be kind and gentle with yourself.
I hope that looking forward brings you and Linda hope and happy memories bring you two great joy to see you through her treatment and recovery. Every day is a step closer, every week is a leap forward.
Keeping you and Linda in my thoughts,
Sandy
Ex-spouse MISDIAGNOSED with SCC-HN IVa 12/10. Tonsils out 1/11. 4 teeth out 2/11. TX Erbitux x2, IMRT x2 2/11. 2nd opinion-benign BCC-NOT CANCER 3/11. TX stopped 3/11. New doctors 4/11. ENT agrees with 2nd opinion 5/11. ENT scoped him-all clear 7/11. Ordered MRI anyway. MRI 8/22/11 Result-all clear.
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Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 711 | 3 more! Then there will be 5 "lighter doses " over the scar tissue. Linda is getting badly burned and we know from experience that even after rt ends it keeps cooking for a while longer BUT, we are almost there.
David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.
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Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 167 | Love the countdown - the smaller the number the better! Thinking of you guys!
Jennifer (39)
02/10 SCCa Tongue & Base, HPV-
03/10 Partial Glossectomy & ND 11/10 Revision due to additional nodes 12/20-2/2/11 IMRT & concommitant chemo 2/11 PEG in 3/11 PEG out
Back at work and feeling good 03/24/11!
12/20/11 - 9 month f/u PET/CT - all clear!
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Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 711 | Well, that countdown has hit the smallest number it can. 0. Zilch. Nada. No mas. Radiation is complete! Poor Linda is so burned and that's a really hard area to put a dressing on and have it stay but the end is in sight. Already the burned area looks a little smaller. Apptment with oncologist on monday but other than that, no more running hither and yon for a while.
David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.
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Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | Great news, David! - Now you and Linda can look forward to running hither and yon in beautiful Puerto Vallarta!
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | At least that it DONE.
Congrats to the both of you.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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