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Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 875 | Paula:
Nothing I can say will help, but maybe knowing another of your OCF friends is praying for you at this most horrible time of your life, might help a little. Reading all the other comments from everyone has to let you know how sorry we all are for your loss. Please keep in touch with us.
julieann
Julieann Nov 2007 SCC on right tonsil following tonsillectomy. Was smoker, QUIT. (Stage IV T2 N2b) 7 weeks radiation one day/wk chemo (carboplatin and 5-FU). Allergic to Taxol; PEG in, lost 30 lbs. TX completed January 2008. PEG out mid- 2008. PET/CT 1/17/2011;2/3/12 NEGATIVE for cancer  | | | | | Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 126 "OCF Canuck" Senior Member (100+ posts) | | "OCF Canuck" Senior Member (100+ posts)
Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 126 | Paula, I'm so sorry to hear this. Your loyalty and strength have seen you and Jim through this long and difficult journey. If I ever have to face this outcome myself, I hope I'll be able to find the courage that you have shown. My heart goes out to you both. Anne
Anne - CG to Gordon (59), non-smoker/non-drinker. SCC, BOT, HPV 16+, stage 3. Jan./10 - radical neck dissection to remove 48 lymph nodes, 1 node pos. Apr. 23/10 - finished 35 rad. and 3 cisplatin. Jul. 22/10 - PET scan clear.
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Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | Paula - I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I hope that in the days ahead, there will be some peaceful and soothing moments for you and comfort from family and friends.
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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Joined: May 2009 Posts: 1,412 | Paula, I have been following your sory, but did not post much. I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you during this difficult time. There are no words I can say to help ease the pain, but we are all here for you. Vent all you need to.
Angelia
31 at Dx.
DX: 4/30/09, 10/21/09 SCC on floor of mouth,
T1NOMO, T2N1M0
TX: 39 IMRT, 8 cisplatin 11/30/09
PET/CT: 11/03/09: Lymph node involvement
PEG/PORT: 11/09
TX end: 02/01/10
PET Scan: 04/05/10 clear
PEG Out: 06/21/10
Biopsy: 12/23/10: fibrosis
HBO: 01/04/11 - ORN
Baby girl born 11-30-12
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Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 701 Likes: 1 | Paula,
I am so very sorry that you lost your Jim. You and your family are in my thoughts. I wish you peace and comfort.
Anita
Anita (68)
CG to husband, Clark, 79,
DX SCC 11/07, T4N0Mx, PEG 1/08, RAD, post rad infection 3/08,
HBOT 40 dives, ORN, Surg 11/09 mandibulectomy w/fibular graft.
Plastic Surg 4/10, 12/10, 3/11, 10/11, 4/12, 10/12. All PETS clear,
PEG out 1/11. 6/11 non union jaw fracture
Fractured jaw w/surgery 7/14
Aspiration pneumonia 7/21, 10/22
PEG 7/21
Botox injections
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Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 453 | Paula, I'm so sorry for your loss of Jim. You are a wonderful caregiver who was with Jim till the very end. What a wonderful wife you are. Sending my love to you and your family.
Wendy
Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone
No surgery
radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks
chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin
last TX 28/08/2009
25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity.
08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR
03/03/2010-Peg removed
01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap.
23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue
01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed
01/03/2021 chemotherapy started.
17/03/22 lost the battle. Missed dearly
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Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 100 | I am so sorry Paula,I know words are of little consulation in your grief and wish there was something I could do to help. Please know that you and Jim are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tom
Tom-CG to wife, Pam 46@dx
Stage IV Tongue Cancer T2N2C
Dx 6/08, Surgery 7/08, 3 nodes positive
9/08 33IMRT/7Carbo/Taxol
4/09 node biopsy positive, mets to lungs/stomach
5/09 Cisplatin or Cis/Alimta study
6/09 Cis/Taxotere
9/09 Taxotere
1/10 Xeloda
3/10 Cetuximab weekly
6/29/10 lost battle
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Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 598 | Paula -- My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You did everything humanly possible, and Jim's suffering is at an end. No matter how prepared we think we are, when the time comes it is an awful blow. Been through it with several family members, so thoughts are with you as you go through the grieving process.
Jeff
SCC Right BOT Dx 3/28/2007
T2N2a M0G1,Stage IVa
Bilateral Neck Dissection 4/11/2007
39 x IMRT, 8 x Cisplatin Ended 7/11/07
Complete response to treatment so far!!
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Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 681 | Paula,
My prayer for you is that as time goes by you will find comfort in the good memories of your days with Jim.
SCC stage II Partial mandibulectomy w. neck dissection- July 2005. Renal cancer w. partial nephrectomy-Jan 2004. Breast cancer discovered in routine mammogram. Successful lumpectomy, sentinal nodes clear, RT only-2008 Reconstruction of mandible w fibula free flap-Jan 09. TORS removal of begnin pappiloma from esophagus-2010. Masectomy,rt breast 2013.
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