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#109911 01-06-2010 07:48 AM
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I had (and have) a world class caregiver - my wife. Trust me when I say that if she would post, many of you would re-evaluate your concept of a difficult or frustrating cancer patient. wink
I just saw this 2 Reader's Digest articles on caregivers and thought you may find them interesting. They are not cancer specific but seem relevant.
I can't emphasize enough tip #10 in this one.
RD 10 tips
Numbers 1 & 2 struck me on this article
6 things cg wish they had known
Neither of these articles are as good as the advice given out here daily, but maybe one of you will write an article for Reader's Digest on Cancer Caregivers.
Charm

Last edited by Charm2017; 01-06-2010 07:49 AM. Reason: typo

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2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG
2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery
25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Apaghia /G button
2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa
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Thanks Charm. Number 9 would have to be my favourite on the top 10 tips.

I agree with you on what you said about the advice given here daily from caregivers. These guys on here were my saving grace many times.


Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone
No surgery
Teeth removed 06/07/2009
radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks
chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin
last TX 28/08/2009
25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity.
08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR
03/03/2010-Peg removed
01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap.
23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue
01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed
01/03/2021 chemotherapy started.
WendyG #110050 01-08-2010 09:51 AM
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Wendy

Ah yes, Tip #9:
[quote]9. Focus on quality of life. Caregiving can be very trying at times so be sure to keep a positive attitude and sense of humor. Plan some activities for both of you to participate in together. This allows for you to connect with each other outside of the caregiving role.
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An excellent choice.
charm


65 yr Old Frack
Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+
2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG
2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery
25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Apaghia /G button
2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa
40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin

Passed away 4-29-13

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