|    |       Joined:  Mar 2008  Posts: 3,082    Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Mar 2008  Posts: 3,082  |    Wendys
  The answer is "it depends".  As you noted, some posters are eating very rapidly, others not.  The best thing is to see a speech pathologist/therapist to get the basic exercises: forceful swallow etc.and then a Modified Barium Swallow test. Very very few people go as long as I have without being able to eat, but I had surgery on radiated tissue, then even more radiation afterwards.  A lot depends on what part of your tongue the surgery involved.  Mine was base of tongue which is very bad for relearning swallowing.   I would have killed to be at the "can't eat very well" stage after only one month.  I am still not there.  Both the speech and the eating will get better within the year. Charm         65 yr Old Frack  Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+  2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG 2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery 25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin  Apaghia /G button 2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa 40GY-CyberKnife(5)  3 Carboplatin    Passed away 4-29-13
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Aug 2008  Posts: 716    "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)    Joined:  Aug 2008  Posts: 716  |    Hello wendys and JojoFlores,
  I had 40% of my tongue removed with no reconstruction. It is what it is. I began eating about two weeks after surgery then I started rad txs and basically was on a liquid diet for 5 or 6 months due to taste and swallowing issues.
  I finished my tx 11-4-08 and I just got done eating pretzels dipped in peanut butter with nothing to drink, lol, it wasn't easy but it was very doable; although, I will be getting a tall glass of cold milk not because I have something to wash down but because it just seems logical to drink some milk after having peanut butter. I eat almost anything..always have and always will. 
  Practice, practice and practice and don't be afraid to try try and try again. 
  One more thing--it would be easier if you both create a signature (check mine out on the bottom of my response) and when you have a question start your own thread so your concerns and questions do not get lost. With your own thread you will get better undivided attention from a bunch of great people with great advice. And it alleviates someone else's thread from being hijacked.
  stay strong   
Last edited by Ray1971; 12-13-2009 05:48 PM.
       
7-16-08 age 37@Dx, T3N0M0 SCC 4.778cm tumor, left side of oral tongue, non smoker, casual drinker, I am the 4th in my family to have H&N cancer 8-13-08 left neck dissection and 40% of tongue removed, submandibular salivary gland & 14 nodes clean, no chemo, IMRTx35 11-4-08 Recovering & feeling better    |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8    Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8  |    A milkshake might be an easy start when relearning to eat.  Yogurt and pudding are also easy.  Here is a link to a list of easy food I posted a while back.  Hope it helps. http://oralcancersupport.org/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=94621#Post94621        ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44  2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07  -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma  2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years  very happy to be alive       |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Nov 2009  Posts: 493    Platinum Member (300+ posts)   |           Platinum Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Nov 2009  Posts: 493  |    I make myself a milkshake every day with Ensure, a bannana and a scoop of ice cream.  I also throw a liquid vitamin in the mix and sometimes a couple of spoonfuls of Ovaltine.  I found that mashed potatoes kind of stick to my teeth, so haven't had much luck with those.  I also have tried thinly sliced chipped ham.  It just takes me so long to eat ANYTHING!          
Female, nonsmoker, 70, diag. 5/09 after tongue biopsy: stage IV.  Left hemi-gloss. and left selec.  neck disec. 30 lymph nodes removed May 20. Over 7 weeks daily rads. with three chemo. PEG removed 12/4/09  Am eating mostly soft foods. Back to work 11/09 Retired 4/1/11. 7 clear scans! Port out 9/11. 2/13.  It's back: base of tongue, very invasive surgery involving lifestyle changes.    2/14:  Now speaking w/Passey-Muir valve.  Considering a swallow study.  Grateful to be alive.
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