OH NO!!! You can't have the last word!!!! I think that we both want to help people, and I don't see a problem with open discussion. There wasn't any name calling, stone throwing or "I'm taking my ball and going home".... so as far as I'm concerned we both got to have our say. But you can see that at times I react like an overprotective father. I am heavily invested in OCF emotionally and in those who come here. That doesn't mean I always know best.... and diplomacy was never my strong suit.


Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.