Yes gal, you vent all you want, I lost my mother, my favorite cousin and she sure didn't last long, and my best friend to name just a couple. This is one time that none of us can say why not me instead?? We been there and are doing it ourselves.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here