The ability to "vent" with people who understand and have "been there" is very important to recovery, whether cancer victim or caregiver or a truly caring friend. Prayers to the Best Listener help too smile Blessings to you, Angelia.

Husband: 3 SCC gum and cheek cancers 2002, 2005, 2006: surgery only. Scans clear after removal of small, well differentiated, non-invasive cancers. No radiation. 4th SCC lip diagnosed 4/13/07 - in situ, removed in biopsy. More lip removed 2/8/08 - dysplasia. 2 Biopsies 3/17/09 no cancer (lichenoids)