David,

This whole journey is life shaking. It takes us all time to really understand where we are. Our caregivers go through HELL too. My husband is just now feeling like he can back off some. The part that use to bother him was he could not fix it.

I can understand the upset when you found out the other Dr. missed something. I hope you let him know about it. I am sure he will be surprised he did not see that.

I too had spots on lungs but it never developed into anything. So hope the same for you. We live from scan to scan for a while, then in time we can let go of that too.

Take care,
Diane

2004 SCC R.tip 1/4 tongue Oct. 2005 R. Neck SCC cancer/Chemo Cisplatin 2x/8wks. Rad. Removed Jugular vein, Lymph gland & some neck muscle. TX finished 1/20/06... B.Cancer 3/29/07 Finished 6/07 Bi-op 7/15/09 SCC in-situ, laser surgery removed from 1st. sight. Right jaw replacement 11/3/14. 9 yrs cancer free as of Jan. 2015